#2 Wholeheartedly agree with this, i know i felt the same way everytime i stood in front of the mirror after a shower and see the the podge of a belly, the man boobs (ok an A cup lol), the double chins and love handles. Not repulsed just disappointed in myself to let myself get there, even in photos i hated my fat face look (granted i don't take good selfies)
Now with several months of hard cardio and gym sessions I'm now proud to look at myself in the mirror seeing the transformation in that time, still the stomach podge is there but Rome wasn't built in a day situation. Though nice to go out and buy new clothes several sizes smaller than what you have been used too :)
#1 sleeping naked has never been an issue for me as i find it more comfortable as i'm a restless sleeper so i get tangled up easily lol of course if i sleep away from home i will at least sleep in shorts.
and sleeping naked leads in nicely to #3 but us men don't really need to explore ourselves too much (ok some will experiment) as we get in the mood then self pleasure is on the cards if alone or if sleeping with someone more fun with less time lost taking clothes off
#4 if i had my own place i'd have no issues with walking around the house starkers but currently my housemates wouldn't appreciate it lol but will walk around in shorts at times
#5 compliments is something i find the hardest to take/accept as i don't see it when people say it, not in a sexual situation but in general. When i do get one it feels weird saying thanks after it, but i know when i give a compliment to a lady friend they sort of do the same thing "oh thanks but i don't see it".
Which i feel like banging my head against a wall when you give a lady a compliment but they think they need the lip fillers, botox and photoshop heavily photos to think they look beautiful which makes them look ugly.
Thanks for the weekly emails, it's great to have the chance to read them and see things in a different light
I'm glad certain things were able to resonate with you! Of course not everything will but I'm really happy to read this! I can't recommend enough accepting every compliment that is given to you at any capacity! Compliments make the other person giving them feel good too. Knowing they made someone else feel good is a nice feeling (As you know since you said when you've given complements to the girls you were seeing you just want them to feel good!). Thank you for this comment! I'm so happy you're also feeling a lot more confident in yourself, your body, and who you are. That makes me smile :)
#2 Wholeheartedly agree with this, i know i felt the same way everytime i stood in front of the mirror after a shower and see the the podge of a belly, the man boobs (ok an A cup lol), the double chins and love handles. Not repulsed just disappointed in myself to let myself get there, even in photos i hated my fat face look (granted i don't take good selfies)
Now with several months of hard cardio and gym sessions I'm now proud to look at myself in the mirror seeing the transformation in that time, still the stomach podge is there but Rome wasn't built in a day situation. Though nice to go out and buy new clothes several sizes smaller than what you have been used too :)
#1 sleeping naked has never been an issue for me as i find it more comfortable as i'm a restless sleeper so i get tangled up easily lol of course if i sleep away from home i will at least sleep in shorts.
and sleeping naked leads in nicely to #3 but us men don't really need to explore ourselves too much (ok some will experiment) as we get in the mood then self pleasure is on the cards if alone or if sleeping with someone more fun with less time lost taking clothes off
#4 if i had my own place i'd have no issues with walking around the house starkers but currently my housemates wouldn't appreciate it lol but will walk around in shorts at times
#5 compliments is something i find the hardest to take/accept as i don't see it when people say it, not in a sexual situation but in general. When i do get one it feels weird saying thanks after it, but i know when i give a compliment to a lady friend they sort of do the same thing "oh thanks but i don't see it".
Which i feel like banging my head against a wall when you give a lady a compliment but they think they need the lip fillers, botox and photoshop heavily photos to think they look beautiful which makes them look ugly.
Thanks for the weekly emails, it's great to have the chance to read them and see things in a different light
Cheers Terry :) xx
I'm glad certain things were able to resonate with you! Of course not everything will but I'm really happy to read this! I can't recommend enough accepting every compliment that is given to you at any capacity! Compliments make the other person giving them feel good too. Knowing they made someone else feel good is a nice feeling (As you know since you said when you've given complements to the girls you were seeing you just want them to feel good!). Thank you for this comment! I'm so happy you're also feeling a lot more confident in yourself, your body, and who you are. That makes me smile :)
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